Friday, June 3, 2016

I was wrong

Most people don’t like to be proved wrong.  Even if they are wrong, they deny the evidence and support their false opinion anyway.  I try not to be one of those people, though I do make a few slip-ups here and there.  One of the false opinions I had was that the people of the Catholic religion were stuck-up, hypocritical, and overall bullies!  Turns out I was wrong.  I was stereotyping them!  I always make this HUGE deal about how Christians are unjustly stereotyped based on the limited view on the media, but that was exactly what I was doing to the Catholics!

I went to this wedding in Wisconsin with my dad earlier this year.  It was for one of my dad’s friends and his fiancée.  What I didn’t realize was that the wedding was Catholic.  When I found out, my heart dropped down into my stomach.  I was afraid that the other girls there would “persecute” me for being Protestant!  I now see that thinking in that way was utterly stupid, but I didn’t see it then.  Anyway, during the service, I thought people were going to stare at and judge my dad and me when we didn’t exactly follow their traditions.  But they didn’t.  Not so much as a passing glance.  Later, during the reception, I thought the reception would be boring and flat.  Basically, I thought it was going to be a second sermon with food.  But, I was wrong.  The speakers at the table had a great sense of humor and made lots of jokes!  Of course, they mentioned GOD, Jesus, and the Bible a lot, but it felt natural and sincere, not forced.  Soon after, they cleared the dance floor!  I thought they were going to play classical dancing songs that would lull me to sleep.  Again, I was wrong.  They played fun, upbeat songs like “Shake It Off” and “Uptown Funk”!  I had a great time!  I was proved wrong by the Catholics.  They disproved the horrible stereotypes I believed about them.  I was wrong.  But now, I am in the right, and I can’t wait to see where that takes me.

No comments:

Post a Comment